Tuesday, June 5, 2007

Frank FINALLY finds a woman - not me.

Frank mentioned previously in March and namely here.

He's a bit of a wimp. I'm sure glad Frank has a new woman. I knew something was up, because all of a sudden, he began to ignore me. I have seen this before too many times not to recognize it. In a way, it's very admirable. If I were dating a guy, I would hope that all the chicks at work or at the gym who he constantly attempts to bed would suddenly cease to exist. Yes, at first I was confused. Then I was annoyed. We women are very superficial. We like attention, what can I say? I'm used to getting attention too, probably because I am the youngest child and I got ALL the attention growing up.

Truth be told, I don't have to do anything to get attention from men if I'm in a room with a bunch of co-workers. For example, when I attend training there are usually 50 or so people around who I have never seen before. Half are guys. Most are married. Married guys are friendly just like single guys. When it comes to the single guys, I notice that since I tend to ignore all men, only the most aggressive of them actually approach me. Most of them usually have huge egos. I can't stand men with huge egos. So I hardly make lifelong friends at training. I get along with other women, unless they think they are in competition with me for men's attention. I refuse to compete, but I also refuse to befriend women who compete for men's attention.

But anyhow, Frank was acting strangely. I wondered if he had been seeing someone. But then I thought, "Nah! Who?! He's so...... " and I mentally explored everything wrong with him. Then today, he just HAD to drop it in during a four-way conversation. He and a "friend," "she," and "her." Gotcha. It was a very calculated move. I think that Frank thinks that he is getting some kind of revenge on me for the New Year's Eve debacle. I understand his need, but I don't think it's fair. Still, I am happy for Frank if he is getting some. I think it's been a long time.

1 comment:

NewsCat said...

I read your last post on Frank. He sounds like kind of an asshole. I was stuck on someone like that a few months ago. They're not really interested in their targets. They simply crave the attention of being desired.

He wanted you to go all goo-goo over him so he could feel all manly. It was good on you to ignore him. I don't know what you said or did from New Year's but I wouldn't take it personal. It wasn't about you, it was about him wanting you to want him...(but not, actually, date you).

Those people kind of suck (men and women who play those games).