For all involved. X wanted - what he wanted, I still don't know what that was, but it certainly wasn't me. Move on, MH.
So I've moved on to what I want. I want a house of my own!
I called a mortgage place yesterday to see how many decades it will be before I will actually be able to buy a home on a FIXED rate. And surprise! When they called me back I was tentatively approved for over TWICE what I thought I would ever be able to spend. This is thanks to all the raises I've been getting lately I guess. Plus my credit hasn't been completely wrecked by the divorce. Wow. Do I deserve a stroke of good luck? Crap, I know I just jinxed myself with that last sentence.
So now the search is on for a new home. I took some time while not being able to sleep last night to write down my must-haves:
- AT LEAST washer/dryer hook-ups. No more coin-op or take-out laundry for MH! Yay!
- Area for a dog to run and play. Grassy area. So I can have a dog. Plus I need at least a container garden.
- BIG kitchen (or at least room to enlarge kitchen) because I have three awesome metal cabinets from the forties that NEED to stay in the kitchen.
IF it's a condo or townhouse:
- Lots of storage
- Two bedroom w/ at least 1.75 baths
- Private outside area for my morning coffee
- LOW HOA
- Nice neighborhood to preserve my morning run.
IF it's a house:
- It CANNOT be newer than 1960 (unless I just go with brand new, which I doubt)
- Two baths or room to grow
- Original kitchen and maybe baths
- Must not add up to more than I can afford INCLUDING extras
I want to buy a Murphy bed for the guest room/space so I can also use it as a sewing room and office. There is an awesome Murphy bed that has a desk top on the outside, which gently floats down when you pull the bed down. It probably costs around $3 grand though. I could frickin' make my own for that kind of money! But that's what I want.
I NEED to get a new bed. The last time I had a brand new bed, it was when my parents bought me a daybed when I moved out. That was, let's see, 17 years ago! I slept on the daybed for 10 years. Then I bought an old full-sized bed from craigslist for $40. It is from the fifties. I don't recommend sleeping on a mattress from the fifties, even if it is from SEARS. When my sister came to visit, I broke out the air mattress for her. It's a queen size! She raved about how comfortable it is "for an air mattress." After she left, I thought it would be fun to try it out and I have been sleeping on it ever since. It's SO much nicer than that crappy old thing. So I need a new bed. I might upgrade to a queen size too. Not sure.
That's really all. Except for appliances if the "new" place doesn't have them. But I sincerely hope it does. I want AUTHENTIC appliances. I want the counter-top RANGE and the WALL oven.
I think I'll copy most of this post to my other blog and try to keep all of this boring house crap over there.