Frank FINALLY finds a woman - not me.

Frank mentioned previously in March and namely here.

He's a bit of a wimp. I'm sure glad Frank has a new woman. I knew something was up, because all of a sudden, he began to ignore me. I have seen this before too many times not to recognize it. In a way, it's very admirable. If I were dating a guy, I would hope that all the chicks at work or at the gym who he constantly attempts to bed would suddenly cease to exist. Yes, at first I was confused. Then I was annoyed. We women are very superficial. We like attention, what can I say? I'm used to getting attention too, probably because I am the youngest child and I got ALL the attention growing up.

Truth be told, I don't have to do anything to get attention from men if I'm in a room with a bunch of co-workers. For example, when I attend training there are usually 50 or so people around who I have never seen before. Half are guys. Most are married. Married guys are friendly just like single guys. When it comes to the single guys, I notice that since I tend to ignore all men, only the most aggressive of them actually approach me. Most of them usually have huge egos. I can't stand men with huge egos. So I hardly make lifelong friends at training. I get along with other women, unless they think they are in competition with me for men's attention. I refuse to compete, but I also refuse to befriend women who compete for men's attention.

But anyhow, Frank was acting strangely. I wondered if he had been seeing someone. But then I thought, "Nah! Who?! He's so...... " and I mentally explored everything wrong with him. Then today, he just HAD to drop it in during a four-way conversation. He and a "friend," "she," and "her." Gotcha. It was a very calculated move. I think that Frank thinks that he is getting some kind of revenge on me for the New Year's Eve debacle. I understand his need, but I don't think it's fair. Still, I am happy for Frank if he is getting some. I think it's been a long time.